The inevitable problem between a female and a male best friend friendship.

One of the main problem that develops between a female and a male best friend is that one of the them ends up falling in like or love with their best friend. They get stuck with figuring their feelings out towards them, but in all honesty, it was bound to happen one way or another. You fall for them, no matter what you try to do to stop the feeling. It just grows naturally. That’s one thing that sucks.

It gets difficult talking to them when you start to conceal your feelings and boil it all in. You want to confess, but you’re afraid things will be amiss. You’re scared that if you take the leap of faith, you’ll lose this person forever. You’re scared that you’ll end up in rejection. You’re terrified of the outcome. You want to take the risk, but it’s just so damn complicated. You wish you were able to just know their thoughts right on the point and know who they’re interested in, but you don’t want things to become awkward. You want to tell them, “Hey, I like you,” but in all honesty, it doesn’t work that way. You wish you can tell them, but you don’t want to screw things up and make things awkward. So, more than half the time, you end up being stuck between staying just as friends or to tell them.

This is one of the problem and honestly, they hold this title “best” friend for a reason. If they’re going to let feelings screw over your friendship between you two, then they were not really your “best” friend. You fall for them inevitably because they grow on you. They’re someone who knows you better than anyone else. They’re someone who you dump all your problems on and they won’t judge you. They’ll be the person to lend you an ear and be there for you. They’re the person who sticks with you through thick and thin. They’re the person who loves you for you and accept you for the way you are. They’re the person who you just end up loving for each and every flaws. They’re the person who you just start to see them beautifully no matter what have happened. They’re your best friend for a reason and that’s why you end up falling for them. You see them for them, so it becomes a problem when you fall for them without knowing so. The inevitable.